PREMATURE EJACULATION – PROBLEMS
Research in recent years has shown the limitations of the ‘stopwatch’ definition, and another definition has been proposed. This is that premature ejaculation occurs if a man ejaculates either before entering or, more usually, after his penis is in his partner’s vagina, so quickly that a normally orgasmic woman gets little or no enjoyment from the episode of sexual intercourse. By avoiding any time-interval, this definition excludes a man who ejaculates soon after entering the woman’s vagina, but who has satisfied his partner sexually by helping her to orgasm during an extended period of sex-play, or whose partner reaches her orgasm very quickly. But the definition fails to recognize that many women obtain sexual pleasure from the feel of the man’s penis thrusting in her vagina, and from the close body contact which occurs during prolonged sexual intercourse.
A man who ejaculates prematurely has the problem that he is unable to delay his sexual response voluntarily, and he passes rapidly from the late plateau stage (in which many men can remain for long periods) to the stage when ejaculation is inevitable. In other words, a premature ejaculator is the reverse of a woman who cannot reach orgasm. In her case, messages from the sex centre in the brain inhibit the reflex which causes orgasm; in his case, messages from the brain facilitate the reflex which controls orgasm and ejaculation.
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